Everyone seeks to somehow look more attractive. Either because they seek to achieve the best version of themselves or because of social acceptance. Although physical beauty is usually branded with certain negative ideas, such as thinking that you are a superficial or narcissistic person. The truth is that nothing is further from reality; there is nothing wrong with caring for and maintaining a good appearance in order to look more attractive. On the contrary, wanting to look more handsome is completely valid.
In fact, looking good and conveying the perception of being attractive to others greatly improves your self-esteem. And it will make you feel somewhat more confident in both your actions and goals. Even the topic of confidence will have a certain special mention at one point in this post, so from now on we want to remove any thought that is considered negative from wanting to look attractive.
It should also be mentioned that the concept of what is “Attractive”. It can vary a lot depending on the person; remember that what is attractive for one person may even be repudiated for another. However, here we will cover the points that we consider general when defining someone attractive, so that you can understand what are the qualities that you must possess to look more attractive.
To look more attractive you have to convey confidence.
It is curious because here a paradox similar to that of “Which came first, the chicken or the egg?” can occur. Well, there are those who think that if you look attractive and consider yourself a beautiful person, you will have confidence in yourself. But there are also those who think the opposite, that you must first have confidence in yourself in order to look attractive.
Regardless of which is the correct option, the common factor of both is that if there is self-confidence they can be seen more attractive in the eyes of others. Without a doubt, this is something closely linked to attitude, for the simple fact that confidence is associated with other equally positive descriptions. To mention a few we have… A person with determination, very capable (in a productive and creative sense), and sure of himself and the things he does.
In fact, by nature the human being is attracted to those who possess leadership qualities. And if you have been present in a coaching or personal growth course. You will know that the word trust is present in almost everything. Not to say that they sell it to you as something essential to be successful, and the truth… They are not wrong.
Be productive and proactive.
To explain this point we want to make a small dynamic or game, which will help us understand the matter much better. The dynamic consists of stopping to think, how do you visualize an attractive person? Most likely, the image you build in your head is of a celebrity, businessman, influencer or simply an artist. And do you know what all these figures share in common? That they are all hardworking people in a certain way or that they have fought to get what they have or to be what they are.
That is why productivity is considered another trait to take into account to look more attractive. Well, most likely, people prefer to be with a boy or girl who is successful in a certain way (or at least financially stable). That with an individual who can contribute little or nothing. Although this point is closely linked to material interest, it is undeniable that it is for good intentions or not, that if you are someone productive you will attract people.
Take care of your figure and physical appearance.
Finally, to close this entry, we want to deal with the point that without a doubt must be mentioned when talking about attractiveness. It is of course the physical appearance that we show off to others; this involves not only how we dress and personal hygiene. But also our haircut and figure.
Many of us know that to look more attractive you need to look good. And the truth is that this is the easiest point to attend to, since we only need to spend some time when we are going to interact in public places. Or be with another person (As on a date for example). Brushing your teeth well, keeping your hair clean, smelling good, clothes that are clean and wrinkle-free, all of these factors in combination make for an attractive person.
Remember that the human being by nature is very dependent on sight, so if you know how to fall in love with the eyes, you will have half the way to look more attractive.